She Listens: Dear Inner Feminist

She Listens: Dear Inner Feminist

Dear Inner Feminist,

The movement for women’s rights hasn’t stopped, but you have. Where have you gone? Did I do something wrong?

Maybe you were never truly awoken in the first place…

Hopefully this playlist filled with popular summer anthems and throwbacks will lift your spirits?

  1. “***Flawless”— Beyoncé
  2. “Confident”— Demi Lovato
  3. “Girl On Fire—Inferno Version”— Alicia Keys (feat. Nicki Minaj)
  4. “No Scrubs”— TLC
  5. “BO$$”— Fifth Harmony
  6. “BBHMM”— Rihanna
  7. “Electric Lady”— Janelle Monáe (feat. Solange)
  8. “All About That Bass”— Meghan Trainor
  9. “Survivor”— Destiny’s Child
  10. “Feeling Myself”— Nicki Minaj (feat. Beyoncé)
  11. “Like A Boy”— Ciara
  12. “Love Myself”— Hailee Steinfeld
  13. “Miss Independent”— Ne-Yo
  14. “Video”— India.Arie
  15. “Q.U.E.E.N.”— Janelle Monáe (feat. Erykah Badu)
  16. “Salute”— Little Mix
  17. “Unbreakable Smile”— Tori Kelly
  18. “Unpretty”— TLC
  19. “Who You Are”— Jessie J
  20. “Run the World (Girls)”— Beyoncé

 

XOXO,

Nadya

She Loves: Wife Chronicles: How to Maintain a House of Peace

She Loves: Wife Chronicles: How to Maintain a House of Peace

I never truly understood the importance of having a peaceful home until I became a wife. It was important to me as a single woman but when joining lives with another person- peace began to have a different meaning.

Peace became sacred, covered, protected, and shield from harm and unwanted outside forces. I am not intentional with how I set the tone in my house, which ultimately guided the mood of all who walks into the doors.

Here are some of the ways that help me to keep and maintain a peaceful home:

  1. Declutter and maintain order

A clean home is not only inviting, but it helps with the positive vibes and energy of the home. When I first moved on my own, I would dedicate a day to cleaning and do a extensive cleanse of my house. But in the midst of home, family, work, and all other things that’s on our plates—it’s become difficult to do that. So now, every night I have a routine of “tidying” up, room by room. I put away blankets, put all dishes in the dishwasher, wipe down my countertops, and go intentionally through the home to prepare it for the next day. While doing so, I make it a point to slowly calm my mind from the day. It helps me to not go to bed and have my mind still racing. The clean aura of the home creates a welcoming feeling each morning and an inviting space every evening.

 

  1. Be Mindful of the company you invite to your home

I LOVE spending time with people. However, I can probably tell you all people who have entered the doors of my home. Every person contains 3 things; a body, a soul, and a spirit. Spirits are transferrable. Have you ever noticed that if you hang around someone who is angry long enough, you will find yourself being short tempered over time? When creating a peaceful environment, intention and discernment are your best friends. Be careful the people you bring into your personal space— especially since motives and intentions are unseen.

 

  1. Bless Your Home

Since I can remember, my mother blessed our home with oil. It would be a simple bottle of olive oil that she would pray over—and she will then pray over herself and walk each room with word of prayer and a heart of surrender. Now, as a wife of my own home, I find myself doing the same. Instead of olive oil, I use died sage (which is very similar to burning incense). I start at my front door and go to every corner of my home, ending back at my door and opening the door to allow any unwanted spirits to leave. I wish I could explain the aftermath of it but I can only compare it to PEACE. This has now become a part of my prayer/personal time with God that I look forward to, while increasing my intent to cleanse my home

 

Peace is provided to us all but we must become intentional to maintain it. What are some of the things you do to help maintain peace in your home?

 

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She Empowers: The Law of Attraction

She Empowers: The Law of Attraction

Have you heard of The Law of Attraction? It’s a thought philosophy that like attracts like. This simply means that in life, we attract the things that we are within us. Whether good, bad, or indifferent—we attract the things and people that are merely a reflection of what’s within.

Although the theory is debatable by many, I am a firm believer that that is true because I’ve seen it play out in my life personally. Additionally, the philosophy has a foundation of belief – which further reinforces truth behind the concept that we attract what we put out. For example, in the word of God, we’re told to BELIEVE FIRST and we will SEE it manifest later. Regardless of the circumstances, we’re told to stand on faith and believe that our perception will become our reality. It all starts within.

I’ve lived this out for years. A professional mentor (that’s a CMO of a globally recognized company and home brand) share with me one of her secrets to success:

“I don’t think about where I am. I visualize where I want to be. I go beyond visualizing through living my life as if it’s already happened. For every promotion, I’ve found someone in the company that had the type of role I wanted next. I would observe and study the person’s behaviors, how they interacted with peers, and learned more about their work ethic… and I would imitate them. I’d put my one personal spin one what I found as my next professional stepping stone. You can’t have what you don’t believe you deserve or you can see. If you can see yourself there, then it’s yours.”

From marriage, to career moves… her wisdom has held great truth for me. I’ve taught myself to live my life through the lens of my future self, and my physical and current circumstances will simply align with time.

Have you experienced the Law of Attraction in your life? Share with the STRONG leaders how it’s had an impact on your life.

 

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